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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Get Oral About It

I can honestly say there isn't a man on earth that doesn't love having their dick sucked.  Some oral fantasies lean more toward the romantic erotic, like getting a blow job from a woman wearing dark red lipstick.  Others want things like deep throating and fucking her face.  Either way, the spit or swallow issue will inevitably come up.

If you want your dick in a woman's mouth there are a few tips that will help.  First and foremost, don't ask for it.  If you go begging for a BJ chances are, you're going to be left wanting.  Your woman will be more into it if you let her arrive there on her own.  Never, ever shove your dick in her face and tell her to suck it.  If you want to push her in the right direction, go down on her first.

Once a woman heads downtown, don't grab her head.  Women hate that.  I know, I know... you like to direct the action.  The problem is, directing the action isn't going to get you more action.   The more turned on she is, the better your blowjob will be.  Get your chickie good and horny, but delay fucking her until she takes it.  That gives her ample opportunity to slob your knob.

If your woman is on the inexperienced side you should talk about oral sex outside of the bedroom.  A car ride is a great place to start.  Begin by telling her that you want her to tell you what she likes when you're going down on her.  You want some direction so you can please her.  Then ask her if she would feel comfortable with you giving a little direction when she's going down on you.  Next, ask her if there's anything she likes having done to her when she's receiving oral.  Smile, wink and tell her you intend to spend hours perfecting your oral technique, can she handle that?

When it comes to the spit or swallow issue, a lot of personal preferrance plays into it.  For the majority of men, they don't care what you do with the cum after they've filled your face with it.  Spit, swallow, who cares?  Just let them take a nap and recharge the batteries for round two! 

What if you're really turned on when a woman swallows your load?  The key to making this happen is to tell her how hot it is and make it a pleasant experience for her.  If you haven't ejaculated in a few days, don't cum in her mouth and expect her to swallow it.  The poor girl might drown in all that jizz!  You also have to make it taste good. 

Yes.  I said make it taste GOOD.  What you eat affects the taste of your cum.  No woman wants to swallow overly bitter or salty jizz!  The key to yummy cum is to eat pineapple and avoid salty foods.  It'll be good for you inside and out!  If you can't eat pineapple, drink some pineapple juice.  Trust me, she'll beg for more.

The last piece of the puzzle is to educate yourself.  If you want her crazy horny so she'll do just about anything you want, learn proper oral technique yourself.  "The Lick By Lick Guide to Mouthwatering and Orgasmic Oral Sex" is one of the best instruction books on the market.  Order your own copy for less than $10 from Amazon and Bon Apetite!

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