Keep Her Legs Spread

Now that you've managed to open the gates of heaven (read "her legs"), you're going to be hard pressed to keep them open.  You can't just wedge a chair in there to keep the door open.  So how do you keep the sex coming now that you have it started?

Randomly buy her little gifts, like pink fuzzy handcuffs.  Let her feel empowered by letting her use them on you first.  Or just handcuff yourself and tell her you're hers for the night to do with as she pleases. 

The key to opening a woman up to increasingly kinky sexual experiences, and increasing the frequency of those sexual experiences is to let her explore.  As your woman explores her own sexuality in a way that makes her feel safe and empowered, she will be more willing to try new things.  Don't attempt to make her feel safe and comfortable in her exploration by constantly asking her "are you ok?"  She'll get pissed off and be done with it.  That's annoying.  Instead, make sex a fun adventure for the two of you.  Let her know it's ok to laugh and have fun in bed together. 

While it's a lot of fun to explore new sexual frontiers together, don't make every sex session about kink.  Mix it up.  She wants slow and sensual too.  Don't forget about quickies and lewd acts in dressing rooms!  These should be a staple of every sex life.  

What new frontiers are there to explore?  There's bondage, S&M, DPs, Three-somes, tons of things!  Take a page out of my Valentine's Day Book:  invite a group of like minded friends over for a "dinner" party.  Some of you will dine and others will be the "plates".  The plates lie naked on a table, counter, or the floor and are covered in foods and sauces.  Everyone else eats off of them, hands free.  Pussy gets licked, dicks get sucked and everyone fucks.  For those of you who aren't quite that adventurous, make your woman the dessert plate.  Paint her body with puddings and creams then lick it off. 

If you can't quite get your woman to give you anal, try some anal beads.  Lube them up, poke them in and pull them out one by one as you fuck her.  She'll love the extra stimulation and will get used to having something in her backdoor.  When she realizes she enjoys that she'll be more likely to take the next step on your anal exploration.

Please keep in mind the fact that anal can be painful if it isn't done right, especially on an inexperienced ass.  You need to remember to take it slow while using a lot of lubrication.  Avoid the warming gels when she's just getting used to something up her ass.  Those will just make your woman more sensitive to sensation.  When you're just starting out that's a bad thing because that means more sensitive to pain as well.  Remind her to breathe and relax.  If she starts to tighten up or hurt, stop what you're doing, have her take a few deep breaths.  Have her imagine her asshole opening up to your cock.  This visual really helps open a woman up.

If you have the cash to spend before you try anal sex with your woman, buy an Anal Training Kit.  It comes with butt plugs in various sizes and a vibrator.  You can lube these up and slide one in while you fuck her.  Work your way up to larger sizes.  The beauty of this method is that you're training her for both anal sex and double penetration. 

Double penetration, for those that don't know, is having a cock in both the pussy and the ass.  It's good fun for everyone.  When she can take the largest butt plug and your thick cock, she's ready to ride one man in a reverse cowgirl while another fucks that tight little pussy.  Now, I know not everyone is into taking on two men at a time...it's a shame...but you can still enjoy double penetration (DP).  Grab yourself a Nass-walk Double Penetrator Cockring Purple, which slides onto your cock so you can give it to her in both holes at the same time. 

Anal isn't the only frontier left to be explored, but I cover it extensively because it is a fantasy of so many men and so few have ever scaled this mountain.  Anal sex is a greta place to start.  Once a woman has let you in the backdoor, it's easier for both of you to try new things.  Grab yourselves a Fetish Fantasy Bag and go crazy playing with the toys, whips, cuffs, harnesses and more.  You can get as rough as you want, or you can just tease and titillate your partner.  By all means, have fun in the bedroom and don't forget to write in to share your sexual exploits with a Kinky Slut like me!